Negatively portrayed by the media

All celebrities at some point in their careers have probably been portrayed negatively by the media and popular press. The media thrives off a good story, and they will do whatever they can to get people to listen to their stories; even if it means manipulation and/or misinterpretation. There is a saying, “don’t believe everything you read,” which I think that we should all live by because not everything that the media and press say is true.

One musician that definitely got a bad reputation because of the media was Michael Jackson. Although he is loved by many, he is misunderstood by few because of what the media said about him. He was certainly an exceptional musician, and because he was “different,” the media was constantly waiting for a good story to write on him. Through much of his adulthood, the media treated him as a freak, with accusations of child abuse, molestation and rumors about his private life-which all had a lack of evidence to support those allegations.

Michael Jackson certainly was unique for many reasons, hence, the constant media attention. His skin color was one issue that the media loved to talk about. His skin gradually grew lighter, and the media took notice. It turns out that Michael had 2 diseases which made him very sensitive to sunlight-causing him to carry an umbrella when he went outside. The paler that Jackson got, the more the media focused on Jackson.

His 2 marriages and his children with “odd” names were certainly talked about negatively as well. After divorcing his first wife, Lisa Marie Presley, he married Deborah Jeanne Rowe, who gave birth to his children, Michael, Jr. (aka Prince) and Paris Michael Katherine Jackson. The youngest is Prince Michael Jackson II (aka Blanket).

The most negative aspects the media focused on in Jackson’s life was the allegations of sexual molestation. He often invited young disabled or poor youth into his Neverland Ranch. One child who visited the ranch accused Jackson of child abuse during his stay. The media took this news and ran, which obviously took a toll on Jackson’s life. Even after being cleared of all charges, many critics still felt that he was a guilty man that got set free. The media then portrayed Michael Jackson as a mad man. Michael Jackson had been charged with seven counts of child sexual abuse- and Michael Jackson was acquitted on all counts.

Instead of us being influenced by the negative perception on Michael Jackson the media gave to us, let’s remember Michael Jackson for the man that he was; a musical genius. 

Warning Labels?

I definitely think that record companies should put warning labels/parental advisories on the music they distribute. I think that if some ground rules were enforced, and that record companies were forced to rate the music that was distributed, than a lot of the youth would not be so exposed to the negative material in the songs that they listen to. Also, if the music was rated for adult content, then maybe the radio stations would not be allowed to play certain songs, and our kids would not have to be exposed to the negative lyrics. But for that to happen, some rules and a rating system would actually have to be enforced.

But, just like movies that are rated “R”, underage kids can still sneak in, or have their older friends buy them tickets for the movie. Just because something is given a rating, does not mean that the youth are going to listen to those ratings, or even care about them. Back in the days where people still bought CD’s and IPods® and other MP3 players did not exist, than the warning labels might have been affective. Putting warning labels and/or having a rating system today would not be so effective these days, since MP3 players are so prevalent in this generation and music is readily available for anyone, everywhere. There is no age limit for buying music online. You can pretty much buy any song you have ever heard of and the youth of today would not care if there was an ‘adult content’ warning on the music they buy.

If parents were cautious about what music their children listened to, then that would be an effective way to eliminate the “bad” music from their playlists. Parents should have there own rating system, and rate the songs that the kids are hearing. All you need is some enforcement, and the youth would not be exposed to such negative lyrics.

All that being said, I do not think that music has a bad enough effect on the youth and that we should not be so concerned about what they listen to. Yes, there are some horrible songs out there that I would not let my children listen to, but the main thing is that the youth of today like to express themselves through music. Whatever they listen to is important for them to “find themselves” and identify with other people.

Negative effect of music on youth

I believe that music is very helpful and influential, but in some extreme cases, it can have a negative effect on young people. For kids that have a good self-image and good morals, music probably has no negative effects on their life. Young people who are just developing a self-image or who are still growing up may be negatively affected by music. Young people that listen to music with lyrics that pertain to violence, racism, or include any other form of discrimination may be subject to those behaviors or thoughts. Young people that are depressed or hostile towards others might be badly influenced by the depressing or hostile music that they listen to.

Lyrics are an essential part of music and the way that it impacts our lives. Lyrics contain messages and feelings that the artists want to convey to the listeners. If violence and anger are a part of the lyrics that you listen to, then your attitude may become violent and angry. The language music uses and the moral it portrays is reflected on the listeners. For example, if you listen to songs like Marilyn Manson’s “Get your Gunn,” you will hear lyrics like, “I throw a little fit, I slit my teenage wrist, The most that I can learn,
Is in records that you burn, Get your gunn, get your gunn.” That is definitely not music that will influence me positively. If lyrics like that get stuck in your head, then you are constantly thinking about slitting your wrists and getting a gun. Those are not positive thoughts to have, especially when you are young and do not have a lot of self control. Negative influences of music mostly have to do with the lyrics that it comes with.

Another negative effect music can have on youth is if they are listening to it and blocking out everything else around them. In class, young people can learn a lot of essential things that will aid in their futures, but if they have headphones in the whole time, then all they are not expanding their education. Bad grades in school could be because the youth are not paying attention in class, only to what is coming out of their headphones.  Also, if the youth believe that the music they listen to is more important that listening to their peers and/or parents, then they may not get the good advice that they might need. Their behavior will directly affect the music they listen too.

To sum it up, the music the youth listens to can negatively affect them in rare cases. Lyrics are the most important aspect of music and they are the means by which our attitude/behavior reflects. Listening to too much music can be deterring in our education. If we listen to lyrics with violent words in them, it can lead to violent behaviors. Especially if the song is stuck in our head all day, then the constantly negative words are going through our brains and play out in our actions.

What are you passionate about?

Growing up, young people are still trying to “find themselves,” so they sometimes turn to music to help them relate to others or deal with their emotions. I think that music is sometimes the first thing that young people fall in love with. It is the first thing that excites them and the first thing that makes them not feel alone. I think that is why Bloom writes about young people: "It is their passion; nothing else excites them as it does; they cannot take seriously anything alien to music." I would, though, have to disagree with Bloom’s statement. I believe that music is a huge part in young people’s lives but I do not believe that it is the only thing they can take seriously. Young people can be passionate about a variety of things alien to music.         I would consider myself a young person, and I do love music, but am not passionate about it. Being passionate about something is way different than loving something. Our passions consume us. What we are passionate about, I believe, is what we build our foundation on. If you are passionate about music, then you are likely to learn an instrument or become a lyricist or work for a recording company, etc. I can still love music without wanting a career in music, it is not my passion. I think that you should be passionate about what you want your future to involve.        I am passionate about other forms or art. My passion is painting/creative design. I hope to one day become an artist or fashion designer or something that has to do with being creative. I put my time and effort into being creating. Painting definitely excites me more than music does. I love both music and designing, but I actually want to base my life around designing, not music.        Another example is that I have a friend that has a passion for people. She loves to be around people and is always looking for an opportunity to meet new friends. Her future career is going to involve the general public. She is non-judging and always wants to be around others. She, too, loves music but she would rather spend time around others than listen to her favorite band. She can talk to anyone. She is gifted in always knowing the right words to say. I also think that what you are gifted in will reflect what you are passionate about.      My point is that there are many different people with passions for many different things. I think that Bloom was definitely overgeneralizing when he stated that young people are only passionate about music. Young people are definitely excited about music but it is not a passion for them. There is a huge gap between loves vs. passions. Like I said before, music is the one thing that young people first fall in love with. It does not have to be what they are passionate about or the only thing that gets them excited.

Conversing without words

In paragraph 15, Mr. Dara says, "When we get together, there's no words thrown away, no idle talk. We'll sit down, play drums, and just conversate musically." How do you converse with your parents, your friends? Consider what other ways we converse without using words:

One way we converse without using words, is body language. Body language is a huge way of saying something, without actually saying anything. Body language consists of variety of non-verbal actions. Facial expressions, eye movement, and posture are all examples of body language. Facial expressions are a huge part of our everyday lives. Frowns, smiles, raised eyebrows, etc., all send certain messages to whoever you are conversing with, even if no words are being said.

With words, it is easy to persuade or lie to someone. With body language, it is a lot harder. You can lie to someone’s face, but if you have no eye contact, and/or little body movement, that person might not believe you no matter how good a liar you are.

You can converse without words in many ways besides body language, too. You can converse musically, like Mr. Dara explained. In music, there are parts in songs that are just the instruments, no words. Sometimes that can be much deeper than the lyrics themselves. Classical music is mostly all instrumental, and it can say so much. The beautiful instruments sounds can be interpreted into words. If you are having a bad day, sometimes anything anybody says will make you in an even worse mood. But then you listen to music, without words, and your mood will be totally recovered.

I believe you can also converse through any form of art. Painting, drawing, dancing, any form of artistic expression can be substituted for words. Paintings/drawings can tell a story through what is interpreted in the picture or by what media the painter uses. Dancers converse with their bodies through bold moves vs. soft moves. Their bolder mood might be saying that they are angry, while their softer moves could say that they are happy or relaxed.

One way I converse with me parents and friends is through just hanging around them. We do not even have to talk, if we are just sitting watching TV, or eating, or drinking. Just knowing that someone is there for you says everything, even if nothing is being said. Enjoying one another’s company without talking is sometimes a much needed thing.  Talking is a part of everyday life, and there are days when you just need to relax and know there is someone next to you that can relax alongside you, in silence.

Silence can say a lot about a person. Silence can be interpreted as a good thing, or a bad thing. Being silent can mean that that you are disappointed, mad, or just can’t find the words to say. Also, being silent can mean that the person you are conversing with is comfortable enough around you, that talking is not necessary. The saying, “silence is golden,” is absolutely true. Silence can be saying just what you cannot actually say.

My musical library

My library of music reveals that I have a wide variety of musical taste. Country, rock, metal, pop, and worship music are all included in my musical library. I have always listened to country throughout my whole entire life. My family listened to it, so of course I did when I was young and I did not fully understand what music could mean for me. Clint black, Alan Jackson, and Sawyer Brown were the artists that I had listened to the most as a young child. Also, my grandfather (Andy Russell) was a famous singer in Mexico, so you would also find me listening to his songs like, “Besame Mucho”, even though I did not know the Spanish language.

 Growing up, what music I listened to definitely depended on my sister and cousin. They are my best friends, but they are older than me so I depended on them for my musical fix. My cousin definitely had the most influence on me and what I still listen to still today. She had always been absolutely in love with music, and showed me how to be in love with it to. I looked up to her, so of course she always had the best taste in music. In our younger days, we listened to pop music, like the Backstreet Boys and N’Sync. Then, as we got older, they both had jobs, so they would go out and buy CD’s, which I could not afford, so what they listened to, as did I. They both listened to “indie” bands, like Coldplay, Jack’s Mannequin, and Death Cab for Cutie, which I eventually learned to love and appreciate.

In high school I made new friends and listened to what they listened to. That is definitely when rock music entered my musical library. I started listening to bands like Thrice and 30 Seconds to Mars. I also influenced what music my friends listen to. They would have never listened to country music if I had not introduced it into their lives. Also, in high school, is when I took my Christian faith more seriously. My belief in Jesus Christ opened up my musical library to worship music.

Today I definitely got rid of some music that I used to listen to. I believe that everyone goes through musical phases, and your musical taste matures as you do. As my friends and I grew apart, the music they introduced me to went along with them. I think country music will always be present in my life, as will worship music and indie. I will always be in love with Jesus Christ, so I will always want to listen to the music that worships him. Country was such a huge part of my childhood that I can never let that go.  Indie music will forever be in my musical library because that is what made me fully appreciate music and what it means for me today.

Music

    Music is a way I can express myself and help deal with my emotions. When I am feeling down I listen to music to get myself in a better mood, when I am happy, I can listen to music to add to my joy. Music serves a lot of different purposes. Through television, movies, MP3 players, the internet, and radios, music is almost always readily available to access and listen to. Music is something I think everyone can relate to because there are so many varieties and types.
    Listening to music has changed the way I view my life because I know I am not the only one with issues. I can relate to certain songs who’s lyrics are saying exactly the way I am feeling. I can always count on  the song “Fix You” by Coldplay to relate to when I am feeling sad. When I am feeling like I am done dealing with everyone and just want to get out of this town, I will listen to “Boston” by Augustana. There is also songs like “Dynamite” by Taio Cruz that I listen to just to sing along with and enjoy the rhythm. When I cannot put my feelings into words I know that I can count on music to say what I cannot.
    Music is omnipresent, every culture and society has some sort of musical expression. Each country has its national anthem, each generation has their musical icons. I view my community and world differently because I know everyone can be related by the common theme of music. Whether it is across the world, or your next door neighbor, music can unite us.
    Currently, my favorite type of music is country. It influences me greatly because it is real. Country artists sing about real life situations and they are not afraid to tell it like it is. I grew up listening to country music so it has always been a big part of my life. There are songs that will make you cry, and also songs that will make you want to sing and dance, which is why I like the style so much.
    Appreciating music is a lot different than liking music. The theme that music portrays is that it has a different meaning for every person. I can appreciate all the different styles of music out there, even if I do not like listening to it. For the lyricists, the words can mean something completely different then to the listeners. I do not think that there has to be one meaning to a song. Someone’s “break-up song” can be another persons “party song.” There are no “bad” types of music out there, every music style can be appreciated in their own ways.